Hai Quê Hương

A Vietnamese Farm Table Dinner with Food, Poetry & Stories Between Two Homelands

Hosted by Thu Nguyen & Huong Vo Food by Chef Dennis

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Your Co-Hosts

Thu Nguyen

Thu Nguyen

Thu Nguyen is the co-founder of Hammock Earth, a space for ecological belonging. Born in Vietnam and raised in Canada as an immigrant, Thu's path has wound through systems engineering, tech entrepreneurship, and a long return to the body, the land, and her own Vietnamese roots. Early on her healing journey with chronic illness, she travelled and wrote My Quest for Yummy Bánh Mì. She's currently in a season of integration, closing old chapters, opening new ones, and reclaiming what liberation means on her own terms. She works as a somatic leadership coach and facilitator, supporting others through change and reconnection, while continuing to explore identity, healing, and belonging through food, circles, nervous system reset and authentic expression. For Thu, hosting this farm table is really special, a chance to bring every part of her life's path, and every part of herself, to one table with family and friends.

Huong Vo

Huong Vo

Huong Vo is an emerging poet and spoken word artist, community facilitator and career coach. Born in Vietnam and growing up in what is now known as Canada, Huong's work explores intersectional identity, diaspora, and memoirs of family, with poignant reflections sprinkled with culturally relevant humour. She has performed at JAYU Slams at the TIFF and has recently been featured at the Provocation Idea Festival's Flavours of Home: Vietnam event as part of Stratford's inaugural Asian Heritage Month. Huong uses her art for community building, healing and cultural reconnection.

Conversation Menu

A few questions to nibble on before the meal begins.

When you think of the word “home,” what comes to mind for you today? Has that meaning changed over time?

What first comes to mind when you think of Vietnamese food?

What are some flavours of home for you and your ancestors?

The Menu

A four-course family-style dinner curated by our co-hosts to represent traditional and modern Vietnamese cuisine from the South, Central, and Northern regions, including secret recipes from our mothers.

We created this page to share some stories about each of the dishes you'll enjoy tonight.

If you have any dietary restrictions, please let us know as soon as possible and we'll do our best to accommodate you.

Arrival

The welcome course, served as guests gather at the table.

South Vietnam

Bò Lá Lốt

Grilled seasoned beef wrapped in wild betel leaf, charcoal-charred. When grilled, the leaves impart a distinct herbal peppery aroma to the tender juicy beef inside.

Bò Lá Lốt, grilled and plated

Sự Tích · The Story

The betel leaf symbolizes love, fidelity, and devotion in Vietnamese folklore, rooted in the tale of Trầu Cau. Twin brothers Tân and Lang were inseparable until Tân married a woman named Lưu, who could never tell them apart. Feeling forgotten, Lang wandered off in grief and as he died, he became a limestone rock beside a river. Tân searched for him, found the rock, and died there too, transformed into an areca palm tree. Lưu followed her husband's path last of all and became a betel vine, winding around the tree to stay close to him forever. When King Hùng Vương heard their story, he decreed that areca nut, betel leaf, and crushed lime be chewed together, a mixture that turns saliva blood red, a symbol of unity still folded into Vietnamese weddings and the old custom of welcoming guests.

Alone, each ingredient is harsh: the nut bitter, the leaf pungent, the lime caustic. Combined and chewed, they turn warm and sweet in the mouth. It reflects a value at the heart of Vietnamese tradition: real harmony takes compromise, and families become inseparable only by setting aside grief and misunderstanding.

Sức Khỏe · Health Benefits

Lá lốt is a traditional medicinal and culinary herb packed with essential oils, alkaloids, and beta-caryophyllene. It's anti-inflammatory, stimulates digestion, soothes respiratory issues, and reduces excessive sweating.

A note: the story shared above is not actually about the leaf we're eating tonight, but a very different plant with a different Vietnamese name, trầu. They both happen to be translated as "betel leaf" in English. We left the story here anyway, because tonight's dinner is all about examining the stories from our ancestors, our interpretations and misunderstandings, and what they teach us.

South Vietnam

Hoa Đậu Biếc

Butterfly pea flower lemonade with local honey.

Butterfly pea flower lemonade shifting from blue to violet

Sự Tích · The Story

Butterfly pea flowers are radiant electric blue and grow in the Mekong Delta in the South of Vietnam. Steeped as tea, the petals stain the water a deep, glowing indigo, and with a few drops of lemon the whole glass shifts from blue to violet right in front of you. Vietnamese cooks have long prized this colour for more than its beauty and magical transformation. It is said to carry prosperity and good fortune, and it lends its vivid hue to sticky rice, jellies, and sweets served at celebrations. Butterfly pea flowers represent tranquility, purity and the harmonious balance between nature, earth and sky. It is widely viewed as a symbol of grace, transformation, and heartfelt hospitality.

Dinner

Family-style, shared across the table.

South Vietnam Appetizer

Gỏi Ngó Sen

Lotus stem salad, carrots, celery, herbs, crispy shallots, locally sourced shrimp with shrimp chips

Gỏi Ngó Sen, lotus stem salad with shrimp and herbs

Sự Tích · The Story

Today's dish is made from Huong's mom's secret recipe, a Southern classic that balances sweet, sour, salty in one bowl of pickled lotus stem, fresh herbs, crushed peanuts, and crackling fried shallots.

The lotus itself is the national flower of Vietnam: it grows in muddy water, and rises to bloom at dawn. It is a symbol of purity, dignity, resilience, and quiet strength despite life's hardships and adversity. It reflects the history of the Vietnamese people enduring centuries of foreign occupation and struggle, yet continuously rising and flourishing. As a zero waste plant, all of the lotus can be used in cooking: stems, seeds, leaves, roots, tea making, and traditional medicine.

North Vietnam Main

Chả Cá Lã Vọng

Hanoi specialty served with bánh hỏi noodles, fresh herbs, peanuts, fermented shrimp sauce, rice crackers.

Chả Cá Lã Vọng, turmeric-dill grilled fish with dill and scallions

Sự Tích · The Story

This Hanoi specialty began in the nineteenth century, when a family in the Old Quarter started grilling fish for their neighbours, seasoned with turmeric and dill. Their eatery has served only this one dish since 1871 and still exists on a street dedicated to this dish. Dill is a very important ingredient to Northern Vietnam, differentiating its soups and aromatic profile from the South.

In Vietnamese folklore, thì là (dill) has a story about how it was named. The Jade Emperor once sat naming every plant on earth, working steadily through cabbage, pepper, garlic, and on down the list. By the time a small, feathery-leafed plant shuffled up and asked for its name, he had run dry of ideas and simply muttered to himself, "thì là, thì là" (something like "well now, let's see"). The little plant, delighted, took that mumble as its name, and has been called cây thì là, dill, ever since.

Dessert

To close the meal, and open the conversation.

Central Vietnam

Bánh Flan

Vietnamese crème caramel, dark caramel base with farm-fresh eggs and full fat milk.

Bánh Flan, Vietnamese crème caramel with dark caramel sauce

Sự Tích · The Story

This is a silky, French-inspired custard, and in Huế, it is steamed rather than baked, a method passed down when ovens were rare in homes. This particular version is Thu's mother's recipe, made in the very pans she packed when she left Vietnam in 1984.

There is another Vietnamese legend about 100 eggs, where the nation itself begins. The fairy Âu Cơ and the dragon lord Lạc Long Quân fell in love, and Âu Cơ gave birth to a sac of one hundred eggs, which hatched into one hundred sons. Water and mountains could not hold the family together forever: fifty children followed their father to the sea, and fifty followed their mother into the highlands, and the eldest among them became the first of the Hùng Kings. It is the root of the old saying "Con Rồng, cháu Tiên": Children of the Dragon, Grandchildren of the Fairy, a phrase that still explains, for many Vietnamese people, their origin story.

Poems

Words shared at the table, between courses.

Directions to Flavours of Home

By Huong Vo

Prep for a 20 hour flight Pack light, bring appetite for streetfood, family meals, cultural reconnection Other than gifts for relatives, nestle suitcase into another Leave space for all you'll bring back Brace yourself for humidity hitting you like steaming rice cooker pot when you land Rehydrate with rau ma-water pennywort, Your ong noi, paternal grandpas favourite health drink, herb of longevity Layer on mung bean, coconut cream Balancing earthy grassiness with sweet Outside the airport, order a grab ride or if you're lucky, a van full of family will await you with snacks xoi bap- sticky rice with corn, banh gio-rice and pork dumplings, And ginger chews for motion sick relatives more familiar with riding two wheels outdoors than AC'ed four wheeled vehicle Gape in awe as moped motorists carry precarious mini mountains of everything mini-or full size fridge Child sandwiched between mother and child and father carrying this week's groceries bundled jackfruit, longan and lychees of your tropical dreams Hear food hawkers iconic recorded banh bao hap gian! Fresh delicious banh baos! Cross the Dong Nai river, can you hear the rumble as night market stalls wake up No need for Michelin guide here Long lines indicate the people's vote Don't miss bo la lot You'll smell charred peppery aroma Hear quintessential sizzle of meat over charcoal Mouth sized bites invite community and prosperity Stumble in the maze of hems alleys towards your aunt's house Trace from memory the hu tieu noodle shop she took you a decade ago Don't forget it's only open in the morning Good spots are closed during peak heat, aligning with vital afternoon nap Across from Bien Hung Park when the heavenly scent of fresh bread floats over from Banh Mi Nhu Hue Bake House to greet you each new day, You'll know you're at your first home The one your mom grew up in And inside when your eyes linger on dated kitchen wall fading 90's photos of family left to foreign cold lands of France, US, Canada and beyond Know that the Flavours of home Also traversed suitcase, oceans and generations Palates formed in nostalgia and childhood Passed on recipes that helped ease lingering stomach and heart ache that is homesickness The essence of Viet cuisine Shared with new family and friends Until this adopted place Slowly warmed and became home

Golden Lineage

By Thu Nguyen

I love you, said no Vietnamese parent ever. Instead: Con an Chua? Have you eaten? Thử đi. Try this, Tốt cho sức khỏe. Its good for you. Đừng đi chơi quá khuya. Don't stay out too late. Mua rồi. I already got that for you. Con hoi mập lên chút. You got kinda fat lately. Con ốm nhom. You're too skinny. No storks delivered babies in my Que Huong. Only: I found you in a dumpster, took pity on you and brought you home. A knockoff version of Cinderella. What a tangle of threads we inherit at birth. I've spent my lifetime unraveling and untying these knots. Figuring out what stories were made up, what was real, what were dreams that never happened. What stories weren't told through words, but through scars, tears, shallow breaths. Surviving through Famine, Poverty, Loss of Loved Ones, Pirates, Bombs is miraculous But without healing they don't get passed on through words. Instead I listened to the pause in between words and prayers. Looking at pride in my ancestors eyes, how they dress up and act everyday feel guided by these 3 questions. What do you live for? What would you die for? What is worth your life force energy? Love. Even if we had to go to war to get here. Huh. Turns out, the gold was never in the knots. It was in the thread. My Golden Lineage.

Reflection Questions

Come to eat, to listen, discuss, and to ask what stories you're ready to rewrite.

What is worth your life force energy?

What stories do you treasure from your ancestors?

What stories are now limiting beliefs?

What is a story you remember from today?

Moments from the Evening

A few frames from the table, the garden, and the good company.

The full table set under the tent, guests gathered for dinner
A dish being served at the table
Salad, wine, and spring rolls on the table
Thu reading to the table
Thu reading a poem to seated guests
A group of guests smiling at the table
A guest laughing, wearing a party headband
Guests gathered around the table for a group photo
A couple smiling under the tent
Two guests smiling together
Four generations of family smiling together at the table
Two guests in ao dai smiling with a baby
Two co-hosts smiling together in the garden
Thu, the chef, and Huong together
A hand holding a card that reads Keep some room in your heart for the unimaginable
A fluffy white dog lying in the grass
Guests mingling on the grass with the dog
Three guests smiling together at the table
Guests gathered around lit candles for a birthday moment at the table
Guests gathered in the garden for a tour near the pea trellis

Gratitude Ripples

Share a reflection, a testimonial, or gratitude for someone at the table. Your words ripple outward long after the last course.

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